Reciprocal IVF: A Complete Guide to Shared Motherhood at Hudson Valley Fertility
Understanding Reciprocal IVF
What is Reciprocal IVF?
Reciprocal IVF, also known as co-IVF or shared motherhood, is a fertility treatment that allows two partners in a same-sex female relationship to both participate in the conception and pregnancy process. One partner provides the eggs, which are fertilized with donor sperm, while the other partner carries the pregnancy. This way, both partners have a unique and meaningful biological or gestational connection to their child.
How Reciprocal IVF Differs from Traditional IVF
In traditional IVF, the same person undergoes ovarian stimulation, egg retrieval, fertilization, and embryo transfer. With reciprocal IVF, these steps are split between partners, allowing for shared involvement in the journey to parenthood.
The Science Behind Reciprocal IVF
Step 1: Ovarian Stimulation and Egg Retrieval
The partner providing eggs undergoes hormonal stimulation to encourage multiple eggs to mature. Once ready, the eggs are retrieved through a minimally invasive procedure.
Step 2: Fertilization in the Laboratory
The retrieved eggs are fertilized with donor sperm in our advanced IVF laboratory. Embryos are carefully monitored for growth and development.
Step 3: Embryo Transfer to the Partner
The resulting embryo(s) are transferred into the uterus of the other partner, who will carry the pregnancy. This process enables both individuals to actively participate in creating their family.
Who is Reciprocal IVF For?
LGBTQ+ Family Building Options
Reciprocal IVF is especially popular among same-sex female couples who want both partners involved. It’s a beautiful option for couples looking to share in both biological and emotional aspects of parenthood.
When Reciprocal IVF May Be Recommended
It may also be recommended if:
- One partner has fertility challenges but wants to carry the pregnancy.
- One partner wishes to contribute genetically while the other experiences pregnancy.
Benefits of Reciprocal IVF at Hudson Valley Fertility
Shared Biological Connection
One partner contributes eggs, while the other carries the child, allowing both to feel uniquely connected.
Emotional Bonding Through Pregnancy
The journey fosters deep emotional bonding and strengthens the couple’s shared parenting experience.
Comprehensive Medical Support
Hudson Valley Fertility provides personalized treatment, compassionate care, and advanced technology, making the process smoother and more supportive.
What to Expect During the Process
Initial Consultation and Fertility Testing
Both partners undergo fertility testing, including bloodwork, ultrasounds, and medical evaluations, to determine the best approach.
Treatment Timeline and Success Rates
The process generally takes 6–8 weeks, from stimulation to embryo transfer. Success rates depend on age, egg quality, and other health factors.
Costs and Insurance Considerations
While reciprocal IVF may be more expensive than other fertility options, some insurance plans now provide partial or full coverage in New York. Hudson Valley Fertility’s team helps patients navigate financial options.
Why Choose Hudson Valley Fertility for Reciprocal IVF?
Personalized Treatment Plans
Every family-building journey is unique. Our specialists tailor plans to suit each couple’s medical and emotional needs.
Experienced Team of Fertility Specialists
Our team has decades of experience in reproductive medicine, ensuring the highest standards of care.
Inclusive and Supportive Care
Hudson Valley Fertility is dedicated to creating a welcoming, inclusive environment for LGBTQ+ families.
FAQs About Reciprocal IVF
Is reciprocal IVF legal in New York?
Yes, reciprocal IVF is fully legal and accessible in New York State.
Can both partners be biologically related to the baby?
One partner provides the eggs, so they share a genetic link, while the other partner provides the womb.
Both have unique roles in the process.
What are the success rates of reciprocal IVF?
Success depends on age and egg quality. On average, pregnancy rates are comparable to traditional IVF outcomes.
How many embryos are usually transferred?
Usually, one embryo is transferred to reduce the risk of multiples, but the decision depends on medical factors.
What are the risks of reciprocal IVF?
Risks include ovarian hyperstimulation, multiple pregnancy, or failed implantation, but careful monitoring helps reduce them.
How do we choose whose eggs to use?
Couples decide based on age, fertility health, and personal preference. Our specialists guide families through this decision.
Conclusion: Building Families Together with Hudson Valley Fertility
Reciprocal IVF offers same-sex female couples a meaningful way to share in motherhood. At Hudson Valley Fertility, we combine advanced science with compassionate care to help families grow. By choosing reciprocal IVF, couples can experience a shared journey of love, biology, and pregnancy—bringing them even closer as they welcome their child.




